Unusual Sexual Preferences

Unusual Sexual Preferences

Therapy for Unusual Sexual Preferences in Wolverhampton

unusual-sexual-preferences-hypnotherapy-wolverhamptonWhat “turns us on” and what we desire sexually may or may not be deemed by society at large as unacceptable.

As most unusual sexual preferences are indulged in within the privacy of our own homes it is difficult to determine if your “preference” is “healthy” or “unhealthy”.

Obviously, there are some unusual sexual preferences that are clearly unacceptable and indeed against the Law, for example Paedophilia and Necrophilia, but there are many more preferences that people desire and indulge in but very rarely own up to!

Most people’s sexual preferences (and unusual sexual preferences) are formed in the early-ish developmental years when fantasy plays a large part in sexual excitement that in later years, as an adult, can be acted out.

As single adults it is relatively easy to find and identify “like-minded” individuals who can share the preferences we have, but if you are now in a relationship and have kept these preferences “buried” or “hidden” due, perhaps to feelings of Guilt or Shame, then it can put a lot of strain on that relationship.

Confessing your desires & unusual sexual preferences to your partner could have a catastrophic effect on the future of your relationship and this can in itself lead to elevated stress, worry & anxiety.

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What are typical unusual sex preferences?

There are a large number of unusual sexual preferences that might be considered to be “unacceptable” but of course this does NOT mean that they are wrong… One person’s pleasure can be another person’s unacceptable behaviour which society itself might consider completely normal.

Typical Unusual Sexual Preferences include:

  • Voyeurism (Watching others have sex)
  • Sexual games and role-playing (“Doctors and Nurses”)
  • Sexual Pleasure through pain (Sadomasochism)
  • Being Spanked or Spanking others
  • Being Tied-up (Sexual Bondage)
  • Being Dominated or Dominating
  • Sexual Pleasure from being observed whilst indulging in sex (Exhibitionism)
  • Preferring Masturbation to the Sexual Act
  • Sexual pleasure through Strangulation (Autoerotic Asphyxia)
  • Sexual pleasure through Objects (Shoes, Stockings – Fetishes)

It is very important that if you are indulging in any of these activities that you take extra care to be safe, legal and to not impose your desires without consent, particularly, for example, if practising Autoerotic Asphyxia.

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Why do I have these unusual sexual preferences?

There are many schools of thought as to why people develop unusual sexual preferences, one of which is that any diversion of the primary sexual act which is clearly biologically designed for the pro-creation of the species, is caused by events much earlier in the life of the person in question.

So is there something wrong with me?

Without doubt, everybody has sexual fantasies regardless as whether or not they are seen as “acceptable” by society.

If your fantasies or desires are moving you towards the illegal you should definitely seek help to modify them.

If you feel that your partner will be able to understand your desires, or can listen to your concerns then communicating this is definitely an option, but of course this does represent a risk.

In most cases, a healthy sex life in which two consenting adults actively participate in their mutually unusual sexual preferences can be satisfying and healthy.

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Should I tell my partner about my unusual sexual preferences?

Discussing and then carrying out your hidden desires with your partner could be a fulfilling experience for both of you which serves to increase the quality of the bond between you, although or course there is also the risk that your partner could become very “uncomfortable” to discover your hidden desires leading instead to a break-down of trust or the relationship itself.

This is a difficult decision to make.

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My Unusual Sexual Preferences are ruining my relationship

If things have already developed into a problem within your relationship or that your desires are starting to get out of hand, then it may be time to take some positive action.

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Types of Therapy available for Unusual Sexual Preferences

We offer both Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy based solutions for Unusual Sexual Preferences – choosing the right type of therapy for Unusual Sexual Preferences probably has more to do with you and your personality type rather than which form of therapy is more effective, so if you are in any doubt you can always arrange to come along for one of our Confidential initial assessments and we will advise you based on which therapy we think is most suited to YOU.

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